March 1, 2025 Im turning 34 years old!

Like clock work every year I find myself compiling a birthday list of more material possessions or experiences that I find valuable, and this year is no different. Except , as I grow older and wiser, the things I find valuable come from quality conversations and interactions I have with the people that give the material possessions and experiences I hold dear to my heart.

If I could sit and have deep conversations with those near and far, I know I would have a collection of insight, unique perspectives and encouragement from everyone’s individual journey.

Until then, I’d like to have a piece of what you have learned, tried, and observed in your life, and how you feel it could be useful to me as I step into Chapter 34 of my life.

Whatever you decide to share here, I am grateful and appreciative for.

It can be short and simple, or long and complex. Whatever you decide to share with me, I hope you share it with love and encouragement.

Sign up and Comment your wisdom below!

Love,

Cay


Comments

13 responses to “March 1, 2025 Im turning 34 years old!”

  1. Happy birthday to you! Your 30s is the time to remember the quality of your lifestyle is your luck for the future. Take good care of your mind, YOUR BODY, and your relationships !

  2. DeLois Watson-Brown Avatar
    DeLois Watson-Brown

    Sweet, smart Cayla. Here are three things that have helped me, and I am now 68 years old. 1. Always deal in truth and reality. We can hope and dream, but until our dreams come true, handle your business wisely. 2. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or advice. This will save you money, time and heartache. 3. Master the proper use of the words “yes and no.” It is okay to help others as long as you do not hurt yourself in the process. There will always be someone in need/greed-quick to separate you from your money, time, love and resources. Honor and trust your boundaries by protecting your mind, body, spirit, emotions and finances with the universal tools of “ yes and no.” Love and peace unto you. Happy Birthday 🎁!

  3. Symantha Myrick Avatar
    Symantha Myrick

    Cayla, remember that you can do whatever you set your mind to do. Remember to be grateful for all things. Seek Devine guidance in all things. Caste down negative thoughts in your mind and remind yourself that you are powerful, because you are. Remember that without faith we cannot please God. Happy birthday 🎂 Aunt Faye

  4. Hailie Avatar

    One thing my 30s are teaching me is the power of time.

    Time is one of the most precious gifts we have because no matter what, it keeps moving forward, and once it’s gone, we can never get it back. That realization has forced me to hold myself accountable for how I spend my time and what I give my energy to.

    Right now, I’m learning that life is about balance, mastering the time I have so I can truly live. Because life itself is a gift.

    When I started measuring things against time, their significance either grew or faded, and that shift changed everything. It made me realize what truly matters. And at the core of it all, I’ve learned to spend more time loving, loving myself and the people around me.

    I mean truly loving myself, flaws and all, because every part of me makes up the person I was meant to be. And I hope the same for you. I hope you continue to find peace within yourself, to rediscover your callings and talents, and to step fully into your purpose.

    Because our purpose gives us life. It lights the paths we’re meant to walk, and I truly believe that when we trust those paths, blessings will meet us right where we’re meant to be.

  5. Brittney Badass Avatar
    Brittney Badass

    I’ve tried to sum up the goals and lessons I’ve learned of the past few years and I’ve landed on BE FEARLESS.

    BE FEARLESS of all things but God.

    Don’t fear success,
    don’t fear failure,
    don’t fear heartache,
    don’t fear progress,
    don’t fear rejection.

    Fear has no faith
    Fear has all ego
    Ego so big it knocks you down

    GET UP

    Walk FEARLESSLY through the rest of your years on this earth

    HEAD UP

    FEARLESS yields fruitfulness
    FEARLESS yields peace
    FEARLESS yields happiness
    FEARLESS yields growth
    FEARLESS yields Drip Swimwear
    FEARLESS yields Ms Cayla Renee
    FEARLESS yields CAYLA THE CREATIVE

  6. Ayanna Miller Avatar
    Ayanna Miller

    Continue to grow and embrace the beautiful woman you are destined to be. You have so much strength, grace, and light within you—never let anything dim your shine. Keep believing in yourself, chasing your dreams, and standing tall in your worth. I’m always here cheering you on, because the world is a better place with you in it. Happy birthday

  7. Joy Williams Avatar
    Joy Williams

    Cayla, Let’s go and believe it’s your TIME! 2025 is your year your season and your time to fly as an eagle and fly high above the mess that has stressed you out over the years. Leave everything you don’t want or don’t need behind and WALK into your NEW BEGINNINGS WITH PURPOSE. Happy Birthday and I LOVE YOU ❤️ Auntie Joy

  8. LaTisha Nelson Avatar
    LaTisha Nelson

    Happy Birthday to my 1st baby!!

    Advice: Invest! Make small investments in everything! Start a stock portfolio! Open a 529, for your future baby now!!!

    Continue to live in the moment! Continue to protect your peace!

  9. Chyrell Avatar

    Cayla, always be the authentic version of yourself. You are a wonderful human being, you love hard and are a thoughtful friend.
    Continue on this life’s journey laughing and loving, and remember to love yourself the most because you are worthy.
    Love mom

  10. Happy 34th Birthday, friend!! As the first to turn 34, my piece of advice to you would be to focus on what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. Don’t be afraid to let go of what no longer serves you. BIG 34, Shaq year!!! Great year to take bold steps towards your dreams– love you bookie

  11. Cousin Debra Avatar
    Cousin Debra

    1)
    Ask
    Receive or at least acknowledge
    Apply or Discard

    2)
    Experience is not always the best teacher…
    You don’t have to always learn by experience … (You can learn from others experience)

    3)
    “See” if the grass on the other side is real or turf…you’ll know by “digging” deep to see if there are roots.

  12. Vena Wong (cousin) Avatar
    Vena Wong (cousin)

    Dearest Cayla,
    I have watched you grow and courageously go after your dreams. You are on the right path. My advise would be too guard your values and don’t let anyone take you away from your dreams or chip your foundation. Feed and nourish your true friends and relationships. You are strong woman but, don’t ever be too proud to ask for help, guidance or something as simple as a hug from those of us you love and adore you. Continue to be unapologetically you❣️

    Love,
    Vena and Alan sends you a Happy🎂Birthday hug 🤗!

  13. Everything is made up. We all the the opportunity to create the life we want to live. My dad once said, “you’re only given a certain amount of energy per lifetime… use it wisely”

    Happy bday and enjoy!

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